A technique that instantly makes you strong is to wait for someone to pause for a second or two before speaking when someone compliments you for being polite to you. In a second or two, he wondered if he had said the wrong thing. After a second or two, no matter what you say, he has to think about whether you are telling the truth or the scene, whether you are really happy or falsely happy, he feels that you are a bit deep, not the kind of person who is easy to fool. Of course, your expression should be steady, and you should not show confusion, happiness, or distress. You can count in your mind, count to two before you speak, and then you can observe whether he changes the subject and tries to cater to you. If there is, it means that you are the stronger side of the two of you. Silence is a very useful tool when chatting, if the other person is speaking quickly, you should be silent appropriately, pause often, and slow down the pace of the conversation. If the other person doesn't respect you very much, you should also be silent and convey that you are too lazy to deal with him. If the topic of the conversation is very sensitive, and the other party is in a hurry to force you to make a decision, you should be silent, think clearly, and don't even say it. Some people are especially able to say, there are always endless words, but being able to say it does not mean that they will be able to say, when will he be able to control the rhythm, and when will he be counted as entering the door?